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One click — and you're in a private chat. No sign-up.

How to start a conversation with a stranger

Starting a conversation is easier than it seems: the other person is also waiting for a first step. A hello and one simple question are enough — after that the talk usually flows.

First lines

  • Say hi and ask where the person is from.
  • Ask what brought them into the chat today.
  • Offer a simple topic: music, films, plans for the evening.

What helps a conversation

Ask open questions — ones that cannot be answered with yes or no.

Respond to what your partner said, not only talk about yourself.

What to avoid

  • Interrogation and questions about personal data.
  • Unwanted content and pushiness.
  • If the talk does not flow — “Skip” is perfectly fine.

Frequently asked questions

What should my first message be?

A simple “hi” and a question — where they are from or what they are looking for here.

What if no one answers?

Press “Skip” and meet someone else: silence is not your fault.

Are any topics best avoided?

Personal data, politics and anything that may offend. Start with something neutral.